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Saturday, November 4, 2017

How to Love and Be Loved with Venus in Virgo

We all want love to be magical and sparkly as much as possible, but life isn′t a fairy tale on repeat. If you want your relationships to go the long haul, you have to know how to get real with your partner. It′s the real you who is loved unconditionally, and showing that and appreciating that in your partner is the realest, and best part of relating in relationships.
That′s hard for a lot of zodiac signs to do, yes, we′re talking to you secretive Scorpio. Every zodiac sign struggles with this on occasion. Thankfully, every once in a while the universe sends us a transit that gives us a little nudge in the real direction. This time around it′s Venus in Virgo.
Here′s how to love and be loved with Venus in Virgo, so that your summer lovin′ can go the distance

Virgo is the Mutable Sign of the Earth Signs, and as such is about as real, practical and reliable as it gets. Virgo is the person you call, because you know they will be there for you when your car breaks down. You′re at the side of the road freaking out until you call your Virgo.
Then all of a sudden the problem magically gets taken care of and you wonder why you got so hysterical.
These are the themes you want to bring to love and relationships when love planet Venus is in Virgo. Virgo is also a little bit picky, sometimes critical. We′ll expand on that in a moment. Virgo is on a constant quest for perfection.
I lived with a Virgo roommate once who had her salad dressings organized alphabetically in the fridge. Yes, of course they were organic and home made. (Eyeroll!) This precision to detail is what you want to bring to love too. How you ask?
For Virgo, it′s all about having high standards. You don′t need to arrange your love life and relationships alphabetically. You just need to be real and methodical and practical about them, while striving to be the best and bring the best to the table every single time.
Virgo is also Mr. or Mrs. Humble Pie, unless they are in a competition. That′s another story for another day. As critical as Virgo is, they do not like to be flowered with compliments. It embarrasses them, and Virgos find fluffy compliments abstract and unnecessary.
Fine but, they aren′t productive, is what a Virgo thinks. You had the chance to flatter your king or queen when Venus was in Leo, and they loved it. Now, it′s Virgo energy. Move from superficial flattery and compliments and work towards authentic appreciation.
“Hey, you really saved my tail helping me with the car. You are the best and you are so appreciated!” One little text like that makes your partner′s heart skip a beat when Venus is in Virgo. Be authentic. Be appreciative. Show them you have high standards and they are top shelf in your book.
THEY are the high standard you′ve chosen for your life, and there′s no higher compliment to a lover or partner than that.
The transit of Venus in Virgo will run from September 20 to October 14. That′s almost a full month of this lovely, getting real kind of energy for love. Venus in Virgo is the love planet who is sensual and beautiful taking time for more real than anything Virgo.
This energy slows Venus down considerably, as she is usually all about the magic and sparkle when it comes to love. It′s good for Venus to be slowed down once in a while, so now all of the themes that we′ve been talking about that encompass Virgo, can be applied to our love lives and relationships. We ALL are going to be feeling Virgo for a little while.
Slow down on the flattery compliments, up the ante on authentic appreciation, and give as good as you want to get in love. Virgo is so very helpful, all the time. When you help your partner, they remember why they fell in love with you in the first place, and sometimes just appreciating is helpful enough.
Virgo has a tendency to be a little bit critical and judgey sometimes. This is the trickiest part of this transit, especially when it comes to relationships. Try and get past this. How you react to criticism under this energy will make or break your relationship.
Remember that when Virgo gets nit-picky, they are doing so because they have high standards. They aren′t saying to you, “I think you suck.” They are saying, “You rock, and because I care, I think you can be even better than the amazing you you are.”
It sometimes doesn′t come off that way. My brother is a Virgo and we nit-pick like siblings do even today. Some days it drives me bonkers, but back to Virgo′s competitive spirit and high standards, he just wants me to be the best person I can be.
He will be proud and happy for me even if I don′t take his advice, but he will be even prouder and happy for me if I do. When you get little tips that feel like criticism from your lover or relationship under Venus in Virgo, you will remember your reaction is everything to the outcome of your relationship.
Your lover or partner won′t have to be a Virgo under this energy to nit pick. You know how your grandmother used to always give you these little helpful living tidbits of information? It annoyed you sometimes, but you did what she said, or took it in stride because you knew she loved you.

That′s the mentality you want to take with a nit-picking partner under Venus in Virgo. You have free will to up your standards to their level or not. You also have free will on how you react to them. Blowing up at them is not going to save your relationship. Be flexible under this transit, like Mutable Sign Virgo.
The key to every successful relationship is making sure you relate in a healthy manner to your partner, and to make sure they know they are loved. That′s all Virgo wants. That′s all any of us want. To succeed in love under Venus in Virgo, give as good as you want to get.
Venus in Virgo is a transit in relationships that will help you to get real about what is next in your relationships or love life. Some will make it, some will break it, and the ones that make it will go the distance. It′s slower and more practical energy than fancy Venus in fancy Leo.
That′s because it′s now time to do the work on your love life if you want this thing to last. Those relationships that aren′t quite committed yet will see a turning point, one way or another. Those who are committed will feel even deeper and closer than they do right now.
For it to work, you have to work it. Remember, all zodiac signs will be feeling this energy, you don′t have to be a Virgo or even an Earth Sign to use this energy well and wisely. What are your relationship goals under Venus in Virgo?


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